I use 3 spoke length calculators to determine my spoke length. You get different results with each one. Sometimes I use a 4th one. I have never used the one you used. If one calculation is way off I toss that out and kind of use judgement for an "average". I use digital calipers to measure the hub width and hole to hole diameter. If you are having custom spokes made (which I find cheaper than getting a set of already made ones if you go to the right guy) then have them threaded for 16 mm nipples. You could use 12, 14 or 16 mm spoke nipples to adjust the right length. This fudge factor has so far worked for me. Buy a set of each length nipple. I have rebuilt two Bendix manual 2 speeds and don't like either one. They are kind of grindy, have a tremendous amount of back pedal to engage the brake (which increased to even more back pedal in low gear), easily bent axles, poor braking and are hard to adjust. After the rebuild I put the wheel on a bike without the shift toggle and push in the shift pin with a small screw driver. If the bike shifts, then I know it can be adjusted to work, usually a hair trigger on the adjustment but the screwdriver test gives me confidence to keep trying to get it to shift right. I think this clunkiness is the reason they didn't make the manual 2 speed for very long. Every time you remove the rear wheel for a flat or whatever, you have to go through the adjustment dance. The non drive side cone adjustment can easily become too loose if you are not careful with the number of turns you put on the brake arm when reassembling, which if you take the wheel off and adjust the cones with the brake arm will make you have to readjust the shift setting. I bend my axle Klunking and straighten it by tapping on the nut. I have now given up straightening it and just ride it, hopefully it won't ovalize any parts soon? Most of these I have seen have bent axles. Be careful screwing the shift pin into the small fitting when rebuilding to a void stripping the extremely fine threads. One of my friends did this on his Bendix manual rebuild. I still enjoy Klunking with this but you really have to pay attention to the pedal location and anticipate braking as you can bottom out your brake stroke and still not engage the brake. With a bigger chain wheel this is not quite as bad, but them you can't single track with one.
I'm using ISO 590 rims (the 26 x 1 3/8 rims used on old lightweight/British cruisers), so unfortunately I won't be able to use your measurements right now, but I might be lacing another one of these hubs up to some ISO 559's soon depending on how this one turns out. I'm about to hook up the cable on my wife's bike this afternoon and test it out.
Why would 4x wheels be less strong than 3x? Just curious.
We'll see how my experience with the hubs goes; I have a pair of them, one that I overhauled myself and one that I got from RRB member Crassley who overhauled it himself before sending it to me. Crassley's is the one that I currently have laced up and will be mounting soon. Just turning it by hand this thing seems to be running smooth as butter. The one I overauled does not seem to running quite as smoothly, but it's probably just my adjustment as we both used white lithium grease for the rebuild and the innards of my hub were all in great condition.
Interesting information on the hub's shortcomings, though. I was initially drawn to this hub due to it's practicality as a touring hub. Really, all I need to get around most of the country roads in this area of the midwest is a second, lower gear, which this hub will do just fine for (by the way, do you have any idea what the gear ratio in this hub is? I can't find any information on it online; I'm assuming it's just the same as the Bendix Kickback underdrive). But there are no fragile parts or springs or anything in these hubs; I would feel pretty secure venturing out into the boonies with this hub. However, I've never felt that Bendix's had very strong brake, and the fact that the brake in this hub is ran through the drive train makes it even worse. So I guess all I can do is try it out.