Just adding my 2 cents here...the reason for using paypal is for protection. I've bought an item (on a car forum) and never received it, put in a dispute and got my money back. Sure it took some back and forth, and the seller wasn't happy, he claimed to have sent the item but couldn't prove it...all I know is I never received it! With that said, if I had sent him cash or a money order I would have been out a lot of money. As more of a buyer than a seller I usually ask to use paypal for my protection. If the buyer complains about the costs involved than its time to negotiate. :wink: IF he totally refuses than its time to find a different seller.