Maybe this will help. To get a good strong weld , you need good fitment.
I think the problem your having is not with the strength of the tubing your
using , more the way your trying to put it together.
This is good fitment. Its called fishmouthing the tubing. You pick your angle and then
make the tube fit exactly to the tube your welding it too. Once welded the two tubes
become one and the strength of the weld is greater than the actual tubing itself.
This is just stick one tube next to another. Still a good welder can do a pretty good job
and it will be fairly strong.
This is wrong. You can't touch one end and then glob 2 pounds of weld on that end and
expect it to hold anything. Even filling up the void with a bunch of weld will still make
a weak weld. You can't build tubing out of welder wire. Hope this helps.