In the purest application, stack and reach numbers are frame measurements for comparing one frame to another.They do not take into account what sort parts you put on that frame. Once you find a riding position you love for a given style of bike, you can get reach and stack numbers for the rider.
If you love that cruiser with the 16" apes, but you know that next frame you're going to build starts with a 2" taller stack, you might go and buy a 2" shorter bar to get the same fit. The bikes we talk about on this site are much more about style and aesthetics than efficiency and fore/aft balance. Mountain bikers geek out over this sort of thing.
Here's a small taste ...1 paragraph from 1 of the 300 responses discussing "the attack position" on MTBR
"I determined what the STA should be based on placing the saddle a specific horizontal distance behind the BB (~112mm, vs ~160mm or more from others). The STA is what it is, for me, based on a rider's BB to saddle height (690mm for my 30"/76cm inseam). If I find the sweet spot angle, and offset, for a seat tube to fit multiple riders on one bike design (FS or HT), correlating to rider femur lengths, that'd be a standout discovery."