I'm working on my first build (1985 Murray Monterey Beach Cruiser) and feel like an idiot so far.I have many questions but i will start with my current problem.I want to change the headset.I bought a 1" headset off Ebay thinking it would fit but it's not right.It's all the same except the new cup is too small for my tube.The new cup measures about 1-3/16" where it goes in the tube and the old cup is 1-3/8".I see when looking for headsets that they are measured ??mm x ??mm x ??mm.I don't know which measurement is which.I guess my question is can i find a headset for this bike online and if so what size would i look for?.I have also seen spacers when looking for headsets.Will i need to use spacers if i can't find the size headset i need or is that even an option for what i'm doing?.